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2011-07-11 19:49
- Success Rundown
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Part1
1、Have the client define "success'
Everyone has their own idea of what success is, and what a successful life would look like. Have the client define the word succinctly, using a dictionary if necessary.]
2、 Have the client describe what his or her own ideal scenario
would look like when he or she actually achieves success.
Part II
Run the procedure for Empowering Conversation (Chapter 13, page 116)
on the subject of "success."
Part III
In session and on the meter, ask the questions on the following list one
a time. Handle each question as noted.
1、What do you really enjoy doing?
[Find the activity that the client finds most fulfilling or is most passionate about]
Note that it is possible with the right attitude, marketing, imagination and enthusiasm to support oneself reasonably well with nearly any activity.
However, there is a level of awareness beneath which this process will not work. If the only answers the client can come up with are hopelessly
useless, e.g., "Getting stoned, dude/'or "watching television/'it would be better to leave off of this rundown and handle/'What problem is getting stoned (or whatever) a solution to?"
2、What are the reasons you can't get paid enough for ---------(item found in #1) ?
[List all of them.]
It is not necessary to discuss or explore these "reasons" at this point.
Listing them brings each one of them to consciousness, giving the client
an opportunity to view them from a state of awareness, rather than just
responding to these beliefs unconsciously.
3. Is there something else you should be doing instead?
4. Who told you should be doing -------(item found in #3) instead?
5.Is there someone who does what you'd like to do whom you admire?
[If so:] Tell me about them.
6.Is there someone who does what you'd like to do whom you despise?
[If so:] Tell me about them.
a. How is that person similar to yourself?
b. How is that person different from yourself?
[Go back to a., then h, and repeat until the client cognites that they are not exactly the same as that person, and are not impacted by the similarities with respect to the chosen activity.]
7. Have you ever, in any lifetime, been successful at doing -----?
[If so:] Tell me about it.
8. Have you ever decided never again to do -----------?
[If so:] Why?
9 Have you ever been punished for succeeding at -----------?
[If so:] Tell me about it.
10 Have you ever used your skill at ------------- to harm another?
[If so:] Tell me about it.
11. Have you ever punished another for doing ---------?
[If so:] Tell me about it.
12. Have you ever used your skill at ------------to betray someone?
[If so:] Tell me about it.
13. Have you ever done illegally?
[if so:] Tell me about it.
14. Is there someone whom you would feel embarrassed around if you did ---------?
[If so:] Tell me about it.
[This may require reviewing the data on suppression in Chapter 27 with the client]
15. Does someone disapprove of you doing ------------?
[If so:] Tell me about it.
[This may require reviewing the data on suppression in Chapter 27 with the client]
16. Who has tried to suppress your activity of -----------?
[If so:] Tell me about it.
[This may require reviewing the data on suppression in Chapter 27 with the client]
17. Whose activity of -----------have you suppressed?
18. Is there an entity who is afraid of your being successful at -----------?
19. Is there an entity who keeps you from doing ------------?
20. In life, what have you been trying to accomplish?
21. Who or what is stopping you?
22. What is their goal?
23. What quandary (problem) has been created between them and you?
24. What solutions have you had to that problem?
[List all"solutions"or behaviors the client has tried.]
25. What is the reasoning behind --------------(each."solution"or behavior)?
[Get, separately, the reasoning behind each "solution"or behavior the client has attempted to use to deal with the problem.]
26. [For each "solution "or behavior found in 26.]
When was the last time you used that thinking (or behavior)
to make a decision?
27. What are you currently doing to bring about your success in ----------- (activity where success is sought) ?
28. [For each item found in 27.]
How is that action appropriate? [Get answer.]
How is that action inappropriate?
29. What are you neglecting to do to bring about your success in ----------- (activity where success is sought) ?
30. [For each item found in #29]
Why has ----------- seemed not worth doing until now?
31. Regarding being successful in ----------- (activity where success is sought), have you had any new awarenesses or insights in this session?
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